{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"HERATLAS","provider_url":"https:\/\/heratlas.blog","author_name":"Arwa","author_url":"https:\/\/heratlas.blog\/index.php\/author\/admin_3uru9iuk\/","title":"Becoming Me, Without Leaving Her - HERATLAS","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"fK2avnwUDD\"><a href=\"https:\/\/heratlas.blog\/index.php\/2026\/05\/02\/me-with-her\/\">Becoming Me, Without Leaving Her<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/heratlas.blog\/index.php\/2026\/05\/02\/me-with-her\/embed\/#?secret=fK2avnwUDD\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Becoming Me, Without Leaving Her&#8221; &#8212; HERATLAS\" data-secret=\"fK2avnwUDD\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/heratlas.blog\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/heratlas.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/2-768x431.avif","thumbnail_width":600,"thumbnail_height":337,"description":"Me with Her Becoming Me, Without Leaving Her Somewhere between her needs and mine\u2026I started learning how to hold both. The struggle is real\u2026but so is the love, the learning, and everything unfolding in between.Something has shifted.Now, I take time for myself\u2014a quiet coffee, a simple meal.The guilt still shows up sometimes\u2026but it doesn\u2019t control [&hellip;]"}