{"id":328,"date":"2026-04-25T11:02:31","date_gmt":"2026-04-25T11:02:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/heratlas.blog\/?p=328"},"modified":"2026-05-08T21:04:11","modified_gmt":"2026-05-08T21:04:11","slug":"self","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heratlas.blog\/index.php\/2026\/04\/25\/self\/","title":{"rendered":"The Woman I Am Learning To Find Again"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"328\" class=\"elementor elementor-328\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8acfbbc e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"8acfbbc\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a3a7294 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"a3a7294\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The Woman I am Learning To Find Again<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-44e75de elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"44e75de\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Eight years ago,<\/p><p>if someone had asked me\u2014<\/p><p>Do you want to marry? Do you want children?<\/p><p>I would have gone silent.<\/p><p>Maybe even scared.<\/p><p>To me, having a child was more than responsibility.<\/p><p>It was a life completely dependent on you.<\/p><p>And I didn\u2019t want to fail at it.<\/p><p>I didn\u2019t want to fail at motherhood.<\/p><p>I wasn\u2019t ready\u2014<\/p><p>not emotionally, not mentally.<\/p><p>The strength it takes<\/p><p>to shape and nurture a life\u2026<\/p><p>I didn\u2019t think I had it in me.<\/p><p>But here I am.<\/p><p>Not perfect\u2014<\/p><p>but present.<\/p><p>And somewhere along the way\u2026<\/p><p>I became a mother.<\/p><p>Every day, I show up\u2014<\/p><p>trying to give this little one a life filled with love.<\/p><p>No regrets. No burdens.<\/p><p>Just a heart full of care to give.<\/p><p>Some days I say\u2014<\/p><p>I need a minimal day today.<\/p><p>And the next moment\u2026<\/p><p>I feel like I should be doing more for her.<\/p><p>I juggle constantly\u2014<\/p><p>between being there for her<\/p><p>and holding onto something of my own.<\/p><p>There are moments I am exhausted,<\/p><p>yet I still reach for her\u2026 hold her.<\/p><p>Moments when tears sit quietly at the edge,<\/p><p>yet I am smiling\u2014for her.<\/p><p>And yes\u2026<\/p><p>this version of me is beautiful.<\/p><p>This motherhood\u2026<\/p><p>is beautiful.<\/p><p>My child has brought out the best in me\u2014<\/p><p>a calmer, gentler, more patient version of who I was.<\/p><p>It feels like everything I hope to see in her\u2026<\/p><p>I am slowly becoming myself.<\/p><p>A better version.<\/p><p>A softer one.<\/p><p>From a carefree girl<\/p><p>to someone more careful, more considerate.<\/p><p>Motherhood didn\u2019t just make me a mother\u2014<\/p><p>it changed the way I see the world.<\/p><p>It made me gentler.<\/p><p>This is who I am now\u2014<\/p><p>not lost, just found in a different layer.<\/p><p>Still learning.<\/p><p>Still growing.<\/p><p>Still unfolding in ways I never expected.<\/p><p>Not who I once was,<\/p><p>but not someone unfamiliar either.<\/p><p>But now aware\u2014<\/p><p>and slowly embracing the woman I am becoming.<\/p><p>Motherhood turned out to be far more<\/p><p>than I had imagined\u2014<\/p><p>and yet, deeply beautiful.<\/p><p>There are quiet moments<\/p><p>when it\u2019s just me and my baby\u2014<\/p><p>and everything feels enough.<\/p><p>And still\u2026<\/p><p>even in that fullness,<\/p><p>something gently feels missing.<\/p><p>Because in becoming a mother\u2026<\/p><p>I also became a wife in a different way.<\/p><p>The love didn\u2019t disappear\u2014<\/p><p>but it changed.<\/p><p>The quiet conversations,<\/p><p>the effortless closeness,<\/p><p>the simple joy of just being\u2014<\/p><p>slowly turned into feeding schedules<\/p><p>and holding a baby in between.<\/p><p>From the outside,<\/p><p>the three of us look complete.<\/p><p>But what about the two of us?<\/p><p>What about the woman in me?<\/p><p>There are days I feel invisible.<\/p><p>Days I long to be seen again\u2014<\/p><p>not as a mother,<\/p><p>but as myself.<\/p><p>To feel alone,<\/p><p>yet together.<\/p><p>To miss what once was,<\/p><p>and still embrace what is.<\/p><p>It is a quiet, courageous journey.<\/p><p>And then I think about the girl I once was.<\/p><p>She wasn\u2019t just someone with dreams\u2014<\/p><p>she lived inside them.<\/p><p>She had clarity.<\/p><p>She had direction.<\/p><p>She knew what made her feel alive.<\/p><p>She loved studying,<\/p><p>going to university,<\/p><p>meeting her friends without overthinking time.<\/p><p>She loved the simple things\u2014<\/p><p>watching shows she enjoyed,<\/p><p>making journals,<\/p><p>creating little things with her hands<\/p><p>just because it made her happy.<\/p><p>There was ease in her days.<\/p><p>A lightness in the way she moved through life.<\/p><p>No constant weight of responsibility.<\/p><p>No guilt for resting.<\/p><p>No questioning herself every moment.<\/p><p>She lived freely.<\/p><p>With energy.<\/p><p>With certainty.<\/p><p>And now I sit here\u2026<\/p><p>wondering when I stopped feeling like her.<\/p><p>Sometimes, when I miss myself,<\/p><p>I look at my wedding photos\u2014<\/p><p>they remind me of us.<\/p><p>Of who we were,<\/p><p>before everything changed.<\/p><p>I go back to old pictures<\/p><p>when I miss my friends\u2014<\/p><p>moments that felt effortless,<\/p><p>full of laughter,<\/p><p>without the weight of time.<\/p><p>I call my parents\u2014<\/p><p>not always because I need something,<\/p><p>but because I miss being their daughter.<\/p><p>And somewhere in all of this\u2026<\/p><p>I realise\u2014<\/p><p>I am constantly reaching back<\/p><p>to pieces of who I used to be.<\/p><p>But somewhere along the way\u2026<\/p><p>people stopped asking about me.<\/p><p>They ask\u2014<\/p><p>How is the baby?<\/p><p>And I answer.<\/p><p>But a quiet question lingers\u2014<\/p><p>What about me?<\/p><p>In all this chaos,<\/p><p>so much is gained\u2014<\/p><p>but so much is quietly lost too.<\/p><p>And even now, as I write this\u2026<\/p><p>I pause.<\/p><p>Trying to remember\u2014<\/p><p>what did I love?<\/p><p>What made me feel like me?<\/p><p>It hasn\u2019t even been that long.<\/p><p>So how is it<\/p><p>that there are<\/p><p>so few glimpses of me left?<\/p><p>To the woman I am learning to find again.<\/p><p>\u2014 Arwa<\/p><p>HerAtlas<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Woman I am Learning To Find Again Eight years ago, if someone had asked me\u2014 Do you want to marry? 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